Is Victory Academy right for us?
We hope so. Let's find out together.
Victory Academy partners with you to fight for the heart and future of your son.
Many Christian parents envision their child growing into a God-honoring adult, but the road there is often messy, painful, and difficult. It may feel like you’re just surviving family life rather than thriving, but this struggle is part of the greater spiritual war for your soul and your son’s.
Some parents are stuck in daily conflict, watching their child struggle under the weight of selfish, life-dominating sin. It’s exhausting, but there is real, lasting hope and healing found in the grace of God. He sovereignly uses this struggle as a means to urge genuine spiritual change. At Victory, we believe change is worth the fight—and we’re here to help.
Enrolling at Victory Academy means gathering a team of biblical counselors and mentors to walk with you through this season. The first step is to evaluate whether Victory is a good fit for your son. While it’s not about checking boxes, you’ll need to consider one key question: Does he want to change?
Family life resembles surviving. Thriving seems like a distant dream.
Does your son desire change?
Desire for change may not be obvious. Your son might be defiant and loud, or quiet and withdrawn. Even if he pushes against everything you hold dear, he may still want something different for his life. It can take some keen and prayerful observation to determine his true level of willingness for change.
Signs your son may want change:
- He communicates unhappiness with how life is going.
- He occasionally acknowledges God or willingly attends and participates in church worship and fellowship.
- He shows frustration with his irresponsibility and how his choices affect others.
- He admits he wants to change but doesn’t know how.
- He’s willing, at times, to accept instruction or correction.
Victory isn’t for every struggling teen—but it is for those who are open, even a little, to growth.
What if my son doesn't want to come?
Most teens don’t eagerly choose a structured program like Victory. That’s okay, but help him understand that the decision isn’t between our program and doing nothing—it’s between our grace-based approach and the harsher environments of programs that enforce change through pressure and fear. We don’t expect a perfect attitude, but we do look for signs of openness.
Victory is different. We’re not a bootcamp or wilderness program. We live in a warm, caring, family-like environment with excellent food, outdoor activities, and consistent biblical mentoring. We challenge young men to think deeply about life, faith, and who God created them to be. It’s hard work to pursue change, but it’s done in a place of safety, support, and fun.
Does this sound like you?
Our team of experienced biblical counselors is available for a free consultation.
Let’s talk and see if this is the right step for your family.
Featured Article
The road God led us down in restoring our family
Kim Ahrens
Parent of a former VAFB student
Hear about the Victory difference and how God transforms the lives of those who attend here.
Additional Encouragement: Listening to Learn
Podcast: Should You Consider Sending Your Son to Victory Academy for Boys this Fall?
Join AM Brewster from Truth.Love.Parent and Mark Massey as they discuss what you can do during the crisis moments of your children’s lives and how Victory Academy for Boys might help.
Additional encouragement
Watch this video discussion with Mark and Ben, as they discuss the truths of the Bible from Ephesians 4:15, and how it applies to engaging the young men that come to Victory Academy for healing.
We are passionate about God’s rebuilding work in broken people and are committed to bringing the hope of Christ to teens and parents. This article may give you some hope and encouragement.
